Passionate speaker focused on change

Emma-Jane came to speak to our school about the important topic of  Sexual Violence and Sexual Harassment. The talk was moving and inspirational. It was not based on policy and government legislation but was an enlightening and insightful look into the world of someone who had been abused and what could have been done to stop it. Emma-Jane is  an outstanding communicator and engaged our staff from the support staff  to the senior leadership. Thank you so much for taking the time, I wish you all the best with your work. 

 Jonathan Parsons , Headteacher at St.Edwards Prep

The presentation and talk had a positive impact on the teachers and  made them understand that we are not only stopping children from becoming victims, but also stopping them becoming perpetrators. Emma-Jane’s talk has helped us plan PSHE lessons to focus on healthy, positive relationships online and real life. We are seeing the impact of this. Emma-Jane is a wonderful speaker and it was a pleasure to host her.

Sadiya Mahmood

If I’m honest I must confess that I never find inset days to be the most interesting, yes of course they are necessary, it gives us the  chance to say hello to our colleagues, to remind ourselves where we are, and to see what the goals are as we prepare for the next term, with a  little more time and space and even a little less noise than normal!  Checking my timetable, I noticed that for the first time ever since I had been at the school, we had a guest speaker on inset day, a lady by the name of Emma Jane Taylor was going to lead a workshop about sexual violence and sexual harassment training. Emma Jane stood up, introduced  herself, and within seconds held the whole hall in the palm of her hand when she told us, without emotion, self-pity or embarrassment that she  had been groomed and sexually abused as a child. I count myself lucky, I was sat at the back of the hall, when the words came out of her mouth, I  have no idea how those at the front reacted when she looked into their  eyes and said the words. I was taken aback, how should I feel? Anger? Pity? Embarrassed? It seemed a contradiction, here was a very attractive, well dressed, articulate, confident lady who none of us had ever met before, telling us about the horrible intimate experiences she had endured as a child. Experiences that most people would want to forget, to hope and pray that those they met throughout their lifetime  would never hear of, of their shame and embarrassment at what had happened to them. I think that this is why I found Emma-Jane to be one of the most inspiring people I have ever had the pleasure to listen to in my life. She knows that she has nothing to be ashamed or guilty about, she was the victim of people who were happy to put their own sexual gratification before the needs of a child, they and they alone should own the shame and guilt. I feel honoured that I have heard Emma-Jane’s story, I hope that many people will have that privilege too. 

David Hogg